30s(wisdom-of-life) There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married
Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
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30s(wisdom-of-life) 50s(wisdom-of-life) I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything
I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...
70s(wisdom-of-life) I Pointed Out the Fraud of the Neighborhood Association, but was Dissatisfied with the Lack of Response
I am an officer of the neighborhood association, but I noticed a fraud in accounting and proposed an improvement plan to...
60s(wisdom-of-life) I want to Quit Smoking but I Can’t
I want to quit smoking, but I just can’t seem to do it. I feel pain in my lungs when I smoke lately, and I have a hard t...
60s(wisdom-of-life) Feeling Upset to Find Out I Was Hurting Other People’s Feelings
My friend confronted me that my words and my actions I took 10 years ago had hurt him/her. I was devastated to hear this...
40s(wisdom-of-life) I Am Tired of My Selfish Husband
My husband is not very good at thinking about other people’s feelings, very selfish, and says whatever that is on his mi...
20s(wisdom-of-life) I Hate That I Waste My Money on Unnecessary Purchases Just to Be Better than Other People
When I see my friends with cool things, I envy them a lot. I would go and buy similar things just to keep up with them a...
30s(wisdom-of-life) Could My Husband Who Takes Extreme Behavior Have Developmental Disorder?
When my husband doesn’t like something, he would suddenly throw things or use abusive languages. I cannot help but to th...
50s(wisdom-of-life) Money Issues Leading to Fights. How Do We Resolve This?
I live with my husband. We got into a quarrel about money issues. Our views and values have caused fights over money in ...
60s(wisdom-of-life) I Am Tired of Not Being Able to Express My True Feelings in Front of My Husband
It’s just me and my husband at home after our children got married and left the nest. My husband is a very short-tempere...