20s(wisdom-of-life) I Get Headaches from Worrying Too Much About What People Think
I hate myself for always worrying about what people are thinking. I’m so worried about my parents, my boss, my friends, ...
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20s(wisdom-of-life) 30s(wisdom-of-life) There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married
Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
50s(wisdom-of-life) I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything
I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...
70s(wisdom-of-life) I Pointed Out the Fraud of the Neighborhood Association, but was Dissatisfied with the Lack of Response
I am an officer of the neighborhood association, but I noticed a fraud in accounting and proposed an improvement plan to...
60s(wisdom-of-life) I want to Quit Smoking but I Can’t
I want to quit smoking, but I just can’t seem to do it. I feel pain in my lungs when I smoke lately, and I have a hard t...
60s(wisdom-of-life) Feeling Upset to Find Out I Was Hurting Other People’s Feelings
My friend confronted me that my words and my actions I took 10 years ago had hurt him/her. I was devastated to hear this...
40s(wisdom-of-life) I Am Tired of My Selfish Husband
My husband is not very good at thinking about other people’s feelings, very selfish, and says whatever that is on his mi...
20s(wisdom-of-life) I Hate That I Waste My Money on Unnecessary Purchases Just to Be Better than Other People
When I see my friends with cool things, I envy them a lot. I would go and buy similar things just to keep up with them a...
30s(wisdom-of-life) Could My Husband Who Takes Extreme Behavior Have Developmental Disorder?
When my husband doesn’t like something, he would suddenly throw things or use abusive languages. I cannot help but to th...
50s(wisdom-of-life) Money Issues Leading to Fights. How Do We Resolve This?
I live with my husband. We got into a quarrel about money issues. Our views and values have caused fights over money in ...