I am not confident with myself.

Question

I do not have any special talents. I cannot have confidence due to my experience of being teased about my appearance.

(Female 10’s)

Answer

What lacks in young adults are the experiences. Due to this reason, people at this stage tend to weigh heavily in forms and appearances. However, it is important to realize that charm exists elsewhere; their unique, one of a kind potential and strengths.

Your life is enjoyable and filled with many joys when you bring out the strength (abilities) that lie within you.
To bring out your inner strengths, cherish the encounters you have with others.
Express your thoughts by word and attitude with a sincere and honest kokoro.

What we suggest you do now to raise your confidence is to open up your feelings about your lack of confidence honestly to your parents. They will help you find your strength because they know where your potential lies. And with no doubt, it will raise your spirits and help you make feel better about yourself. With this, the more you deepen your encounter, happiness and joy are extended. Cherish the ties with people and do your best on the tasks in front of you. You will know no body can replace you, and you will gain confidence in your existence.