women(wisdom-of-life)

40s(wisdom-of-life)

Q I Don’t Feel Like Visiting my Sister who is in the Hospital.

My sister became ill and was hospitalized. My sister often speaks ill of others and expresses her emotions impulsively. ...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

Concerns About where to Send My Child with Disabilities to School

I am a single mother raising a child. My child has hearing problems, is slow to understand words, and has difficulty spe...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I Get Headaches from Worrying Too Much About What People Think

I hate myself for always worrying about what people are thinking. I’m so worried about my parents, my boss, my friends, ...
60s(wisdom-of-life)

I Want My Husband to Stop Drinking

My husband is an excessive drinker, and even if I hide it, he’ll look for it and drink. I recommended a rehab, but he ne...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

I Wonder If I Should Change My Job?

I was enjoying my work in sales and found it rewarding, but I started to feel bad about my coworker’s complaints, so I t...
70s(wisdom-of-life)

I’ve Been Recommended Lower Back Surgery, but I Don’t Want to Undergo It

My lower back pain is getting worse and my legs sometimes go numb. My doctor recommended surgery, but I don’t want to un...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married 

Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I Don’t Want My Skills or Customers to be Stolen by My Colleagues

I got my dream job in the apparel industry, and it is both fun and rewarding. However, it’s not fun when my skills are i...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

I’m Concerned Because My Parents Bring a Lot of Gifts

I just had my child six months ago. My husband comes home late from work, so my parents take care of me and come to our ...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything 

I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...