women(wisdom-of-life)

70s(wisdom-of-life)

I’ve Been Recommended Lower Back Surgery, but I Don’t Want to Undergo It

My lower back pain is getting worse and my legs sometimes go numb. My doctor recommended surgery, but I don’t want to un...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married 

Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I Don’t Want My Skills or Customers to be Stolen by My Colleagues

I got my dream job in the apparel industry, and it is both fun and rewarding. However, it’s not fun when my skills are i...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

I’m Concerned Because My Parents Bring a Lot of Gifts

I just had my child six months ago. My husband comes home late from work, so my parents take care of me and come to our ...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything 

I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

Employment Contract Not Renewed; Considering Changing Jobs

At work, I was told that it would be difficult to renew my contract. This is not my first time changing jobs, and I don’...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

My Husband is Verbally and Physically Abusive: Should I Divorce My Husband?

I have endured verbal abuse from my husband, but recently he has started to raise his hands towards my 4-year-old son. M...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I was Accepted into an Entertainment Agency; But My Parents are Very Against It

I am currently a university student. I passed an audition at an entertainment agency. I don’t want to miss out on this c...
60s(wisdom-of-life)

Land Preparation Work Ruined a Neighboring Field and there were Complaints from the Owner

When I leveled a vacant lot I owned with asphalt, my neighbor yelled and complained at me, saying, “My field was ruined ...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

I am Debating Whether to Divorce My Husband for His Abusive Language and Violence Towards Me

I have endured verbal abuse from my husband, but recently, he has begun to raise his hands towards his 4-year-old son. M...