20s(wisdom-of-life) I Get Headaches from Worrying Too Much About What People Think
I hate myself for always worrying about what people are thinking. I’m so worried about my parents, my boss, my friends, ...
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20s(wisdom-of-life) 60s(wisdom-of-life) I Want My Husband to Stop Drinking
My husband is an excessive drinker, and even if I hide it, he’ll look for it and drink. I recommended a rehab, but he ne...
50s(wisdom-of-life) I Wonder If I Should Change My Job?
I was enjoying my work in sales and found it rewarding, but I started to feel bad about my coworker’s complaints, so I t...
70s(wisdom-of-life) I’ve Been Recommended Lower Back Surgery, but I Don’t Want to Undergo It
My lower back pain is getting worse and my legs sometimes go numb. My doctor recommended surgery, but I don’t want to un...
30s(wisdom-of-life) There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married
Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
20s(wisdom-of-life) I Don’t Want My Skills or Customers to be Stolen by My Colleagues
I got my dream job in the apparel industry, and it is both fun and rewarding. However, it’s not fun when my skills are i...
30s(wisdom-of-life) I’m Concerned Because My Parents Bring a Lot of Gifts
I just had my child six months ago. My husband comes home late from work, so my parents take care of me and come to our ...
50s(wisdom-of-life) I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything
I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...
20s(wisdom-of-life) Employment Contract Not Renewed; Considering Changing Jobs
At work, I was told that it would be difficult to renew my contract. This is not my first time changing jobs, and I don’...
20s(wisdom-of-life) I am Unable to be Upfront with My Partner about My Family Situation
I want to marry the girl I am currently dating. My parents are separated, my father is a gambling addict, and he's in de...