Wisdom of Life

20s(wisdom-of-life)

Q Concerns Over Bad Rumors about My Workplace

Being a cautious person, I have always tried to avoid making mistakes in everything I do. However, when I got the job, I...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

Q I Don’t Know How to Interact with My High School Daughter 

My wife and I divorced when my daughter was 5 years old, and I have been raising her alone as a single parent. She is no...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

Q I want to Invest to Increase my Wedding Funds

I am thinking about getting married to my girlfriend soon, but my parents suggest that it is better to wait until we hav...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

Concerns About where to Send My Child with Disabilities to School

I am a single mother raising a child. My child has hearing problems, is slow to understand words, and has difficulty spe...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I Get Headaches from Worrying Too Much About What People Think

I hate myself for always worrying about what people are thinking. I’m so worried about my parents, my boss, my friends, ...
60s(wisdom-of-life)

I Want My Husband to Stop Drinking

My husband is an excessive drinker, and even if I hide it, he’ll look for it and drink. I recommended a rehab, but he ne...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

I Wonder If I Should Change My Job?

I was enjoying my work in sales and found it rewarding, but I started to feel bad about my coworker’s complaints, so I t...
70s(wisdom-of-life)

I’ve Been Recommended Lower Back Surgery, but I Don’t Want to Undergo It

My lower back pain is getting worse and my legs sometimes go numb. My doctor recommended surgery, but I don’t want to un...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married 

Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I Don’t Want My Skills or Customers to be Stolen by My Colleagues

I got my dream job in the apparel industry, and it is both fun and rewarding. However, it’s not fun when my skills are i...