home(wisdom-of-life)

60s(wisdom-of-life)

Q Relationship Troubles with My Older Brother and his Wife, who is not being nice towards my Parents

My older brother and his wife are taking care of my parents. However, when my mother told me that they were not being ni...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

Q I Don’t Know How to Interact with My High School Daughter 

My wife and I divorced when my daughter was 5 years old, and I have been raising her alone as a single parent. She is no...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

Concerns About where to Send My Child with Disabilities to School

I am a single mother raising a child. My child has hearing problems, is slow to understand words, and has difficulty spe...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I Get Headaches from Worrying Too Much About What People Think

I hate myself for always worrying about what people are thinking. I’m so worried about my parents, my boss, my friends, ...
60s(wisdom-of-life)

I Want My Husband to Stop Drinking

My husband is an excessive drinker, and even if I hide it, he’ll look for it and drink. I recommended a rehab, but he ne...
70s(wisdom-of-life)

I’ve Been Recommended Lower Back Surgery, but I Don’t Want to Undergo It

My lower back pain is getting worse and my legs sometimes go numb. My doctor recommended surgery, but I don’t want to un...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married 

Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything 

I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I am Unable to be Upfront with My Partner about My Family Situation

I want to marry the girl I am currently dating. My parents are separated, my father is a gambling addict, and he's in de...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

My Husband is Verbally and Physically Abusive: Should I Divorce My Husband?

I have endured verbal abuse from my husband, but recently he has started to raise his hands towards my 4-year-old son. M...