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70s(wisdom-of-life)

I’ve Been Recommended Lower Back Surgery, but I Don’t Want to Undergo It

My lower back pain is getting worse and my legs sometimes go numb. My doctor recommended surgery, but I don’t want to un...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

There are Many Divorces in My Family and I am Unsure about Getting Married 

Most of my parents and relatives are divorced. At benkyōkai, I often hear that people’s lives are similar to those of th...
50s(wisdom-of-life)

I Can’t Accept My Mother Who is Very Pushy about Everything 

I live with my mother, who has dementia, and with my father. Ever since I was little, my mother has always suppressed me...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I am Unable to be Upfront with My Partner about My Family Situation

I want to marry the girl I am currently dating. My parents are separated, my father is a gambling addict, and he's in de...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

My Husband is Verbally and Physically Abusive: Should I Divorce My Husband?

I have endured verbal abuse from my husband, but recently he has started to raise his hands towards my 4-year-old son. M...
20s(wisdom-of-life)

I was Accepted into an Entertainment Agency; But My Parents are Very Against It

I am currently a university student. I passed an audition at an entertainment agency. I don’t want to miss out on this c...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

I am Debating Whether to Divorce My Husband for His Abusive Language and Violence Towards Me

I have endured verbal abuse from my husband, but recently, he has begun to raise his hands towards his 4-year-old son. M...
60s(wisdom-of-life)

Even If I Serve Others, I am Not Rewarded and It Makes Me Upset.

No matter how much I do for others, I have never been rewarded and always felt sad. Even now, I am looking after my gran...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

I got into an Argument with the Parents of a Friend Who Left My Daughter Out of the Group

My daughter who goes to an elementary school was ostracized on social media and became a truant. When I consulted with h...
30s(wisdom-of-life)

After Purchasing a Land, I’ve Been Suffering a Series of Accidents

We bought a land to build a house for the family to live in. Soon after, I had an accident, and on another day, my husba...