Consumed by Other People’s Opinions, I Am Worried About Getting Cataract Surgery

I am going to have cataract surgery, but I am worried because some say that the surgery didn’t improve their symptoms. (Male in his 80’s)  

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Physical conditions, symptoms, states of operations, and postoperative processes―they are all different for each person. Thus, experiences of your acquaintances do not always apply to your situation. That’s why your doctor should be recommending the treatment best tailored to your condition. 

It is important to frankly tell your doctor about everything that’s on your mind―your physical condition that only you can understand, as well as your anxiety. It is an indispensable path to have a lot of conversations, to communicate mutual thoughts and feelings, and to build a relationship of trust with the doctor who will treat you―someone who you have encountered in a karmic tie. 

At the same time, you need to share your honest feelings with your family members, and get their supports. Then, your anxiety will flow away, and you will be able to undergo the surgery with a sense of security, enhancing the efficacy of the treatment.  

Shinji 
The principles are weak in the knowledge that inundates society. 
Troubles are created by the kokoro that relies on knowledge without principles believing it to be absolute. 
Your knowledge and experience will come alive when you live your life sustained by the teachings. 
Health—if you keep your kokoro light-hearted and strong, your health will gradually stabilize and you will be healthy both in mind and body. 

 When your heart is positive, strong and stable, you will not be consumed by other people’s opinions or changes in your symptoms. The strength of your unmei, or your life force will be drawn out, positively influencing the efficacy of your treatment and the post-operation process. Therefore, try to keep your kokoro calm and peaceful, always having gratitude toward your surroundings.